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I had a wonderful relationship with a man that lasted four and a half months. We met on-line and the relationship developed quickly over the phone with it culminating in us speaking twice a day for a number of months. During that time the relationship was reciprocal, nourishing, fun and supportive. We got know each other intimately before we met. When we did meet it was even better. However, it became apparent to quite quickly that he was unable to follow through on much of what he had promised with reference to committing to a long term relationship. I felt hurt and angry and spoke up about this. The relationship ended suddenly and when tried to repair it he ghosted me. A few months later he responded to a request from me to talk about my hurt. We did have a good conversation and then met up one last time. The last time we spoke on the phone I had asked if he wanted to catch up again and he said that he did but never got back to me. I feel clearer as write this about what actually happened. However, since the relationship ended some 7 months (with the most recent contact three months ago) now, I still long for him every day. I have never met anyone like him and I feel that I had waited all my life to meet him. I have had a number of other relationships over the course of my life. I just don’t seem to be able to move on from this one. I felt so connected to him on multiple levels and long for his return.
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