Dear Debsayge. Thank you for being so open and honest. I admire your courage so much. There are no right words at this time but you are not alone. Your messages certainly can pass along comforting words for other mothers who have lost a child and help them feel a little less alone.
My heart aches for you, I am sorry for your loss. To lose a child is like losing a piece of yourself.Not many people can relate and understand how this feels, how lonely that can feel as if you are the only one to ever weather this storm. Having your daughter pass away may feel like you failed at the most important part of the mother, but you have not. You will always be her mother, your love is always connected by heartstrings into infinity. She is always with you. First in her lifetime, then forever in your memory. May you continue to find the strength you need to get through each day, and that you find some form of peace and comfort in time. Those we love don’t go away. They walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard, but always near.