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Dearest grieving Mumma,
I felt compelled to place my hand over my heart to applaud you for your ability to respond with such raw honesty….it’s just astounding how our absolute love for our children can give us this ability !!a testament of your deepest love which I say yes! this is a mothers love for her child, nothing comes close, nothing compares ….
You have been honest without judgement, a reminder of what all of us here with you want! to be heard to be held to be seen….feeling as you do I echo it’s really tragic we need to defend our position….recently I had felt the need to send txts to a few who bothered to remember my b/day….I said thank you for keeping us close I’ve had to endure my b/day and it’s been extremely painful like every aspect of everything now !! Happy is not a word I can cope with now I really wish people could get that!!! And just come along side without shaming me into a place I just can’t be now, I know it’s unintentional but I also know it’s thoughtless speak….so of course I didn’t get responses….
So grieving Mumma I am here just to hold you, see you….in our unbearable pain honouring yours, keep talking I have deep respect for your feelings
Thankyou
XxDeb