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I am 37 years old and recently (FEB 2023) lost my mother as a result of a car accident. She had the car accident on the 31st of Jan and died on the 12th of Feb. Those two weeks were a blur, one minute she was going to be ok and the next, they were taking away her support and she was going to pass away. I was there the whole time and two weeks before the funeral which perhaps wasn’t a good idea – just constantly surrounded by her things. I don’t think I have still processed what actually happened. We lost my grandmother in June 2022, and i feel like we hadn’t even processed that and being the only two females in the family left, all we had was each other and now i am left without anyone. I don’t have many friends as i recently moved to South Australia from Victoria. I have two kids and a husband, and i feel like i am letting them down because i am always so sad. I just miss her so much. I think having her birthday come around so quickly (30 of March) and then Easter has also impacted me severely as she was meant to be here. My brother doesn’t seem to understand how i feel and is dealing with his own grief so i don’t want to burden him either. I just don’t know what to do anymore or how to “feel better” nothing is helping and i feel like i am slipping into a Giant Hole that i can’t drag myself out of without her here to help me. I just feel so alone.
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