Reply To: Lost my partner of 26 years 4 days ago to stage 4 copd now I feel lost

[debsayge]

Hello dear Homer,
Thank you for coming in and sharing with us all here, we can sit by your side we can hold you and your child in your heartache and we are listening….
I see how much love you have for your son in your words, we as parents feel that need to nurture them always so allowing them to see us! in our pain! allows them to feel theirs honestly and with a realness that’s is true for them, this society! I’ve learned!is so grief avoidant, that’s I think what makes it all the more painful for the broken lives everywhere….I am a bereaved Mumma of my beautiful girl Sayge, barely 19, I’m still in such disbelief and struggling everyday….
Do what’s right for you both in the moment….really my hope for you is that around you are people to comfort and support you with all the mix of emotions your feeling…of course your sleeping a lot your body has so much going on inside, be ok with that, be with what you feel as painful as it is, and hold your son in his…sometimes! softness is strong…
Please keep sharing we are all here listening and much love to you today dear friend, I hope to have been helpful to you today
XxDeb