Hey childatheart, I hear you. I think my brother was in denial it was happening so quickly, couldn’t deal, left it all up to me. Haven’t spoken since his funeral.
Guess my blessing, as a mum, knew how to care for my dad at home, without him being shy, I was his daughter. Yes, I bathed my father, whilst listening to Neil Diamond together.
Do you have a special song of your mums, I wonder?. Best way to remember your parents wonderful years together.
I’m only just realising how exhausted my mind and body is, after 10 years being on constant alert – hospital bag ready to go. Don’t have the heart to unpack it, sob xx