Lost my dad during a very difficult time

[poppie]

I lost my dad quite quickly while I was helping my son out with his marriage break down. My so. Was the victim of domestic violence and I was right in there with him during the first part of his separation and custody battle. During all the court cases is when my dad took sick and he passed . I didn’t make it to him in time. After his death I have felt like I have had to keep going helping Son and others. Without really accepting what has happened. Because of my dad passing and my mum being quite unwell with dementia and bowel cancer she ended up in a nursing home and she is struggling. Feeling like I haven’t been given the chance to really absorb all that has happened. And I’ve just been expected to keep pushing

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[VM_MaKemi10]

Dear Poppy,

I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. Thank you for reaching out and for having the courage to share your experience at such an incredibly painful and challenging time. I cannot begin to imagine the depth of what you are feeling right now.

You have had to deal with difficult situations all at the same time; your son’s separation, your dad’s death and your mum’s health challenges & subsequent move to nursing home. It is understandable that you feel you have not been given the chance to absorb all that has happened. I cannot imagine the depth of what you are feeling now.

At moments like these, it is helpful to have a trusted network of people around you to share the weight you are bearing. Griefline’s helpline is here for you. If you would like to speak to someone about how you are feeling, please call 1300 845 745. We are open 7 days a week from 8am – 8pm (AEST).

Keep connected through the forum as well, there are other people who have been through a similar experience and willing to share their journey with you.

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