Dreams of lost loved ones ?

[Moon]

I’ve been having very surreal dreams since the recent death of my son. I welcome them. Anyone else ?

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[teew]

I have only had one dream about my dad since he died in January, but he was laughing and that made me happy. But yes, once I woke up I just felt so sad to know I would never experience that in real life again. It sort of takes the breath out of u 🙁

[beck]

I have also had dreams about my dad who died last year. It was so wonderful to see him and have time with him, but it left me shaken and sad for days after. It was like I had to feel that intense loss all over again.

[Moon]

Hi Manchal. everyone. My father passed away almost 20 years ago (my mother as a child) so I’m used to dreaming about him, especially as I’m living in my childhood home, the house he built from scratch, so he can’t be far. He knew his grandchildren were going to grow up here, I’m still here, so of course he is also somehow. Whenever I dream of him, my childhood, it’s like time stands still, I picture everything the way it was growing up myself. Hey, my old bedroom became my sons, walls have many stories to tell, yes. I tried to sleep there one night, but my cat totally freaked out so I returned to my own bed, only to have the most vivid moment, I could hear, smell, touch my son. He was still warm, I kissed his forehead and he opened his eyes. They were like a bright yellow, rather than hazel, and I ask him why, and he replies, mum, it’s because I feel lighter… I do believe him, but I feel heavier xx

[VM-Mancha1]

Hi @moon,

my father passed away many years ago, and I still regularly dream of him. It’s always bitter sweet to have that time with him in the dream, but then to wake up – although I, like you, value every one.

I think in many ways it’s a blessing to have that experience and it’s perfectly normal to treasure it.

[Moon]

Here is a film I want to watch…
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[pokitren]

And it will always be like this…

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