My cat was hit by a car and died.

[kayjayenn]

Over Easter my cat was killed on the road just near my house. We had him for a little over a year and I really loved him a lot. He was the most affectionate cat I’ve ever had and I miss him snuggling with me at night.
I have always allowed my cats access to the outdoors, but I know some people like to keep them as indoor only. What do you guys think? My previous cat lived indoor/outdoor and lived to 20 years of age!

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[VM_MOO]

Kayjayenn

I’m so sorry for your loss. It sounds like your cat was truly special and deeply loved. Losing a pet, especially so suddenly, is heartbreaking. It’s clear how much comfort and joy he brought you, and I can only imagine how much you miss those nighttime snuggles.

The indoor vs. outdoor debate is such a personal one. There’s no right or wrong answer—just what feels right for you, your lifestyle, and your pets.
You gave your cat a life full of love, freedom, and affection. That’s what really matters.

If you need someone to talk to, Griefline is here for you. Available 7 days a week, 8 am to 8 pm,you can reach us on 1300 845 745.

Take care and be kind to yourself during this time.

[VMToby]

Thank you Kayjayenn,

Thank you for the update and reaching out to let us know that after a week you are starting to feel a bit less sad.
What lovely memories you have of your special cat that he was so loved and his death was instant.
If you need to talk please reach out to Grief line 1300 845 745.
Take Care.

[kayjayenn]

Thank you for your reply. I am feeling a bit less sad now after a week. I think maybe because I keep reminding myself that he was loved every single minute he spent with us. Also, he passed instantly.

[VMToby]

Kayjayenn,
I was so sorry to read about the loss of your cherished cat just recently and so suddenly too.
Thank you for reaching out to the griefline Forum.
Pets bring us such unconditional love and loyalty and a sudden loss like this will take time to work through.

Griefline is here for you if you would like to talk about the loss of your cat.We are available 7 days a week ,8 am to 8pm and our phone number is 1300 845 745.
Our website has information about how to support yourself through the loss of a Pet.

You ask the question about whether people have their cats indoors or outdoors and I wonder if you feel guilty about it being an outdoor/indoor cat when your previous cat had been indoor/outdoor one and lived a long life. The decision about this is yours alone and your cat’s too- being a cat they do have a say also.
This was an awful accident so please do not feel guilty.

Take care of yourself and be kind to your self as you learn to adjust to life without your cherished cat.
Take care.

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